It's probably not because you aren't attractive (most of you) sometimes it can just be little things that people don't want to deal with or it could be YOU and you don't realize it. I came across this list of the 4 most likely reasons for your lonely tear filled evenings watching the Notebook and asking yourself "why me?" ....or is that just me? 

#1.)  You're Too Picky.  If you automatically pass on someone just because they're not as tall as you want them to be . . . or they don't have a college degree . . . you're shutting yourself off from a huge number of potential dates.

#2.)  You're Afraid of Rejection.  You can't go into it thinking you're going to hit it off with every person you come across.  You WILL get shot down sometimes and it WILL suck.

#3.)  You're Easy.  Ladies, this one's for you.  Stop pushing sex as your main attraction.  Once that's off the table, guys will start noticing your other good qualities.  

#4.)  You Spend Too Much Time with the Same People.  If you're constantly hanging around with the same group of people, you're never going to meet anyone new.  So try going out without your usual group at least once a month.